Challenging Conventional Wisdom

The 21 December 2005 edition of the Zeitgeist Z-newsletter

Chances are you’ve heard the old joke about the recently married young man who was simply blown away by how succulent his bride’s turkey turned out at their first Thanksgiving. When asked how she did it, she replied that the secret was in cutting off the top quarter of the bird prior to roasting...as her mother had always done it.

Together with the in-laws for Christmas dinner, the young man asked his wife’s mother how she ever stumbled upon such a unique trick for producing such a flavorful fowl. She explained that she learned the trick from her mother...who had learned it from her mother.

As luck would have it, Great Gramma Flo was still alive. When the family visited her at the home on Christmas Day, the young man couldn’t help but ask about the recipe for a perfect turkey. “How did you ever discover such a technique?” he asked.

“Technique?” she puzzled aloud. “Why, we hacked to top of the turkey off because, otherwise, it would never fit in our old oven!”

Sometimes we do the same old thing over and over based on nothing more than that we have done it that way for years. I remembered this old joke when my friend Matt Lyle of AAA forwarded two recent studies to his e-mail list of fellow truth-seekers.

The first, commissioned by Expedia, certainly puts a fork in the notion that visiting friends and relatives want to spend the night with their friends and relatives. 86% of U.S. Adults spend at least part of their holidays with relatives. But, nearly half say the visit would be more enjoyable if they stayed overnight in a hotel. 40% say a hotel stay would produce less stress.

And the hosts? Nearly half say having their relatives stay with them increases their stress levels and 36% say they’d like it if their relatives didn’t sleep over at their place.

And then, there’s the AAA’s own study on our propensity to ask for directions when we are lost. For as long as I can remember, the age-old saw has been that men refuse to ask for directions while women are much more likely to ask for help than drive around in circles for hours.

Uh-huh.

Turns out that women and men are virtually identical on this score with men asking for assistance a (predictable) 34% of the time while 37% of women ask for aid. AAA postulates that the myth about men may have found its genesis in the fact that, when couples travel together, men do the driving 78 percent of the time (thus, fail to ask for directions more often).

Which brings us to the resolution that we hope you will join with us in making (and keeping) in 2006: Challenge commonly held beliefs and practices wherever you find them.

Imagine the fun you’ll have...and the marketing opportunities you’ll open when you discover that we’re all just as lost as the AAA study implies.

Best wishes for a fabulous holiday season...and a prosperous New Year!

Bill

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